"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to make a girl cheat? Course of action?

dudewut

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Backstory: there is this couple, short Asian dude with a 8/10 (Latina) girl. He is around 5'5" maybe 5'6" (average build, maybe a bit chubby) and she is like an inch or two taller than he is. He is on one of my classes and this girl would wait outside for him near the end of class for like 15 minutes.

HOWEVER last week during the finals I caught her staring at my friend on the same class (Asian too, 5'10" - 5'11" kinda built and looks good, no homo) and doing the hair preening thing. She was wearing a pony tail and took it off as soon as soon as she was in his line of sight. And her legs opened slightly. As she followed him with her eyes/head.

Dude she was staring mad HARD like O_O (and this is in the presence of her BF sitting right beside her)! Like she wants to f*cking eat him or something


I told him about this and he said that he did see her once or twice before and asked me if he should just wait for them to break up and/or what should his course of action be....

I HONESTLY DONT KNOW! What would YOU do DJs?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dudewut

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True, but then again its none of his business whether or not she has a BF, right? I might be playing the devil's advocate here cause thats what I told him lmao He is still not sure at what to do though, one of our buddies suggested he just keep looking good and if she approaches or w/e then its not on him
 

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dereklovesugly said:
Well I meant trying to steal her and make her his girlfriend.
well based on what I saw, she already like him...sort of (IOIs are not 100%) and this is what I am wondering about for the longest time now, if she really loves her BF then any guy that comes around will NOT matter, amirite?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BlackMack177

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don't let him fall into the trap

if she's willing to cheat on her man with him then she'll do the same with him in the long run and will more than likely be unstable
 

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Plus I've found it's pretty rough getting a girl out of a LTR, even if she's bored with her boy. Not impossible but it's not worth the effort.
 

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Oh Lord....to simplify & cut out all the useless moral crap. You do not steal taken girls, you pump them for a bit & eject her from your life before she can do it to you.

If he wants a piece of that latina azz, let him game her as usual & be aggressive, if she really wants him she'll submit. If she rejects him....he can move on.
 

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Kirro said:
Oh Lord....to simplify & cut out all the useless moral crap. You do not steal taken girls, you pump them for a bit & eject her from your life before she can do it to you.

If he wants a piece of that latina azz, let him game her as usual & be aggressive, if she really wants him she'll submit. If she rejects him....he can move on.
Exactly
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BlackMack177 said:
if she's willing to cheat on her man with him then she'll do the same with him in the long run and will more than likely be unstable
This. Unless he can tap it and then walk away.
 

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GameTime76 said:
I'd say mind your own fvcking business and worry about YOU.
Good advice here, worry about your own game. If your mate is good enough he can take care of it.
 

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Lol it's not that I am concerned like that, it's just a question that he asked me and now I am asking you guys (and the credit shall be yours) and I've been urging him to make a sosuave account but he won't lol

I don't think he want to do anything now, he says it's too much work, lazy bastard lmao
 
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