"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to make a girl cheat? Course of action?

dudewut

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Backstory: there is this couple, short Asian dude with a 8/10 (Latina) girl. He is around 5'5" maybe 5'6" (average build, maybe a bit chubby) and she is like an inch or two taller than he is. He is on one of my classes and this girl would wait outside for him near the end of class for like 15 minutes.

HOWEVER last week during the finals I caught her staring at my friend on the same class (Asian too, 5'10" - 5'11" kinda built and looks good, no homo) and doing the hair preening thing. She was wearing a pony tail and took it off as soon as soon as she was in his line of sight. And her legs opened slightly. As she followed him with her eyes/head.

Dude she was staring mad HARD like O_O (and this is in the presence of her BF sitting right beside her)! Like she wants to f*cking eat him or something


I told him about this and he said that he did see her once or twice before and asked me if he should just wait for them to break up and/or what should his course of action be....

I HONESTLY DONT KNOW! What would YOU do DJs?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dudewut

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True, but then again its none of his business whether or not she has a BF, right? I might be playing the devil's advocate here cause thats what I told him lmao He is still not sure at what to do though, one of our buddies suggested he just keep looking good and if she approaches or w/e then its not on him
 

dudewut

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dereklovesugly said:
Well I meant trying to steal her and make her his girlfriend.
well based on what I saw, she already like him...sort of (IOIs are not 100%) and this is what I am wondering about for the longest time now, if she really loves her BF then any guy that comes around will NOT matter, amirite?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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don't let him fall into the trap

if she's willing to cheat on her man with him then she'll do the same with him in the long run and will more than likely be unstable
 

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Plus I've found it's pretty rough getting a girl out of a LTR, even if she's bored with her boy. Not impossible but it's not worth the effort.
 

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Oh Lord....to simplify & cut out all the useless moral crap. You do not steal taken girls, you pump them for a bit & eject her from your life before she can do it to you.

If he wants a piece of that latina azz, let him game her as usual & be aggressive, if she really wants him she'll submit. If she rejects him....he can move on.
 

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Kirro said:
Oh Lord....to simplify & cut out all the useless moral crap. You do not steal taken girls, you pump them for a bit & eject her from your life before she can do it to you.

If he wants a piece of that latina azz, let him game her as usual & be aggressive, if she really wants him she'll submit. If she rejects him....he can move on.
Exactly
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BlackMack177 said:
if she's willing to cheat on her man with him then she'll do the same with him in the long run and will more than likely be unstable
This. Unless he can tap it and then walk away.
 

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GameTime76 said:
I'd say mind your own fvcking business and worry about YOU.
Good advice here, worry about your own game. If your mate is good enough he can take care of it.
 

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Lol it's not that I am concerned like that, it's just a question that he asked me and now I am asking you guys (and the credit shall be yours) and I've been urging him to make a sosuave account but he won't lol

I don't think he want to do anything now, he says it's too much work, lazy bastard lmao
 
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