picard
Master Don Juan
How do you guys maintain facial skin smooth, soft to prolong your youth? Do you get facial skin peel once a decade or botox? 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
how to maintain smooth facial skin?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Use lotion and mostly avoid the sun. People who work inside and don't lay out have nice skin.
Botox and skin peels freak me out.
Botox and skin peels freak me out.
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tj
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Make sure you are getting plenty of omega and fish oil in your diet. My skin is smooth as a babies bottom. one sexy biatch here.
For acne I would see a dermatologist and don't use mineral oil or excess sunscreen on your face. Ask your derm for something else. Sunscreen will age your skin.
Peace
For acne I would see a dermatologist and don't use mineral oil or excess sunscreen on your face. Ask your derm for something else. Sunscreen will age your skin.
Peace
picard
Master Don Juan
Did dermatologist tell you sunscreen will age your skin? I am currently taking fish oil. I don't know how would it affect my skin.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Lots of Vitamin E.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Wear sunblock in moderation when you go out during the day. SPF 15 is good enough for most situations.
If you want to go somewhat metro, get a facial done by a skin care professional. It will cost around $100 to $150 for a good one, but your skin will look fantastic. Depending on your skin type, diet, and enviroment, you probably only need to do it 4 times a year. More really screws up your skin.
Finally, don't shave every day. Shaving constantly ruins your skin.
If you want to go somewhat metro, get a facial done by a skin care professional. It will cost around $100 to $150 for a good one, but your skin will look fantastic. Depending on your skin type, diet, and enviroment, you probably only need to do it 4 times a year. More really screws up your skin.
Finally, don't shave every day. Shaving constantly ruins your skin.
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tj
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Picard.
I would suggest some olive oil in your diet as well.
My dermatolist reccomended olive oil. He also stated that there are several chemicals found in otc sunscreen that can enhance dna damage when combined with excessive sun exsposure..
Here is a copy of some literature I found on the subject.
Some will obvioulsy rip on it but use your own discretion.
So now you're thinking that the minerals titanium dioxide and zinc oxide might be "safe" sunblocks, right? Isn't that what "natural" personal care products manufacturers have suggested?
The shocking truth is the fact that both chemical sunscreens (avobenzone, methoxycinnamate, padimate-o and the like) and physical sunblocks (titanium dioxide and zinc oxide) have been found to generate free radicals when exposed to sunlight, which then can attack the nuclei of your skin cells and cause mutations. That´s right: they can cause skin cancer. Furthermore, sunscreen chemicals have been found to pass through the skin and mimic the effects of estrogen, which may disrupt the delicate balance of the body´s natural hormones.
The following excerpt is taken from a book called "Sunscreen Photobiology—Molecular, Cellular and Physiological Aspects": "Illumination of titanium dioxide suspensions with sunlight can degrade organic materials and purify drinking water, while illumination with short wave UV kills human cells. This work shows that the distinction between 'chemical' sunscreens and 'physical' sunscreens, attractive though it may be to those who market them, is not based on any significant difference. Both varieties have the potential to produce reactive species that can attack biological materials (human skin cells) when they are exposed to normal sunlight... What is established is that particles of titanium dioxide as large as 220 nm can enter human cells in culture, and so it seems entirely plausible that if titanium dioxide does pass through skin it could enter cells under the skin (carrying with it the absorbed UVA and UVB radiation and hydroxyl radicals)."
Titanium dioxide is now being used as a new treatment for window glass because it attacks and degrades anything that touches it, thereby helping to keep windows clean. You probably don't want to have anything attacking your skin!
picard
Master Don Juan
what do you mean I shouldn't shave everyday? I will look like caveman if I don't shave at all.
Itiswhatitis
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What about large pores,anyway to solve that,I don't see to many products in the stores for that,I don't have acne.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
How the hell can sunscreen age your skin?
Being out in the sun sunscreen or not can very well increase your skin aging, but with sunscreen you reduce the chances of skin cancer and sunburn.
Get your facts straight, if your statement is backed by "dermatologists" then you post some links to some valid websites showing proof that sunscreen cream itself will age your skin. And if there were any truth to what you said, the benefits of wearing sunscreen than not outweighs the "aging" matter.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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tj
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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
How the hell can sunscreen age your skin?
WTF! Can you not read the excerpt. It is from a book..do you know what that is? A book?
You make absolutely no sense. What part of the paragraph on the chemicals leading to skin cancer don't you understand.
Cnn actually did a report on this two weeks ago. Do you live under a rock?
Are the words to just too big...Just let me know and I will define them for you.
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What's going to age your skin more, the sun or the sunscreens? You'll have a very, very hard job finding an effective sunscreen which doesn't contain any of the chemicals listed above.
As for soft skin:
1. Cleanse
2. Exfoliate (with AHA or BHA)
3. Moisturise
4. Protect from sun
Drinking water and having a good diet helps too, like the other posts have said.
Facial peels are good. I got a bottle of glycolic acid from Ebay. It's got rid of most of the redmarks/scars from my acne in about 6 weeks, (one peel per week).
As for soft skin:
1. Cleanse
2. Exfoliate (with AHA or BHA)
3. Moisturise
4. Protect from sun
Drinking water and having a good diet helps too, like the other posts have said.
Facial peels are good. I got a bottle of glycolic acid from Ebay. It's got rid of most of the redmarks/scars from my acne in about 6 weeks, (one peel per week).
Well, don't shave every day if it is possible. The more I shave, the more damage I do to my skin. Also stuff like aftershave and shaving cream have a habit of drying out your skin. If you must shave every day, only use hot water and a high quality razor, not those, 5 for a dollar kind you see at Wal Mart.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by tj
Moron, if this were from a book and if you're such a genius, like I said before why don't you name this book with the ISBN or Amazon.com link. Let me read it up fully before uneducated people start walking around in the sun for hours getting their skin fried and juiced for cancer without skin protection.Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
How the hell can sunscreen age your skin?
WTF! Can you not read the excerpt. It is from a book..do you know what that is? A book?
You make absolutely no sense. What part of the paragraph on the chemicals leading to skin cancer don't you understand.
Cnn actually did a report on this two weeks ago. Do you live under a rock?
Are the words to just too big...Just let me know and I will define them for you.
Smooth Player 056
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The acne.org message boards has everything u need to know about facial stuff
peace out
peace out
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
tj squirts his manjuice all over his face to protect himself from the sun.
His face is leathery and blistered from all the sun he's been getting as a result of not using sunscreen. But I guess he seems to love his own manjuice and perhaps other jizzisms from other men.
His face is leathery and blistered from all the sun he's been getting as a result of not using sunscreen. But I guess he seems to love his own manjuice and perhaps other jizzisms from other men.
King of You
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^^lmao...uncalled for but funny.
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tj
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I agree it is funny. But sad funny...very, very sad funny. You guys won't understand this comment for a couple of years to come..but that is okay.
brucevangeorge
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Sunscreen isnt perfect. Its got chemicals just like everything else.
Dont believe it? Look at the list of chemicals and do a search for each and every one. Get some backgrounf info.
Until you do that. Shut your mouth. Let the people who know what theyre saying do the talking.
Dont believe it? Look at the list of chemicals and do a search for each and every one. Get some backgrounf info.
Until you do that. Shut your mouth. Let the people who know what theyre saying do the talking.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.