picard
Master Don Juan
How do you guys maintain facial skin smooth, soft to prolong your youth? Do you get facial skin peel once a decade or botox?

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Picard.Originally posted by picard
Did dermatologist tell you sunscreen will age your skin? I am currently taking fish oil. I don't know how would it affect my skin.
Originally posted by cinephile
Wear sunblock in moderation when you go out during the day. SPF 15 is good enough for most situations.
If you want to go somewhat metro, get a facial done by a skin care professional. It will cost around $100 to $150 for a good one, but your skin will look fantastic. Depending on your skin type, diet, and enviroment, you probably only need to do it 4 times a year. More really screws up your skin.
Finally, don't shave every day. Shaving constantly ruins your skin.
How the hell can sunscreen age your skin?Originally posted by tj
Make sure you are getting plenty of omega and fish oil in your diet. My skin is smooth as a babies bottom. one sexy biatch here.
For acne I would see a dermatologist and don't use mineral oil or excess sunscreen on your face. Ask your derm for something else. Sunscreen will age your skin.
Peace
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
How the hell can sunscreen age your skin?
WTF! Can you not read the excerpt. It is from a book..do you know what that is? A book?
You make absolutely no sense. What part of the paragraph on the chemicals leading to skin cancer don't you understand.
Cnn actually did a report on this two weeks ago. Do you live under a rock?
Are the words to just too big...Just let me know and I will define them for you.
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Originally posted by tj
Moron, if this were from a book and if you're such a genius, like I said before why don't you name this book with the ISBN or Amazon.com link. Let me read it up fully before uneducated people start walking around in the sun for hours getting their skin fried and juiced for cancer without skin protection.Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
How the hell can sunscreen age your skin?
WTF! Can you not read the excerpt. It is from a book..do you know what that is? A book?
You make absolutely no sense. What part of the paragraph on the chemicals leading to skin cancer don't you understand.
Cnn actually did a report on this two weeks ago. Do you live under a rock?
Are the words to just too big...Just let me know and I will define them for you.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I agree it is funny. But sad funny...very, very sad funny. You guys won't understand this comment for a couple of years to come..but that is okay.Originally posted by King of You
^^lmao...uncalled for but funny.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.