picard
Master Don Juan
How do you guys maintain facial skin smooth, soft to prolong your youth? Do you get facial skin peel once a decade or botox?

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Picard.Originally posted by picard
Did dermatologist tell you sunscreen will age your skin? I am currently taking fish oil. I don't know how would it affect my skin.
Originally posted by cinephile
Wear sunblock in moderation when you go out during the day. SPF 15 is good enough for most situations.
If you want to go somewhat metro, get a facial done by a skin care professional. It will cost around $100 to $150 for a good one, but your skin will look fantastic. Depending on your skin type, diet, and enviroment, you probably only need to do it 4 times a year. More really screws up your skin.
Finally, don't shave every day. Shaving constantly ruins your skin.
How the hell can sunscreen age your skin?Originally posted by tj
Make sure you are getting plenty of omega and fish oil in your diet. My skin is smooth as a babies bottom. one sexy biatch here.
For acne I would see a dermatologist and don't use mineral oil or excess sunscreen on your face. Ask your derm for something else. Sunscreen will age your skin.
Peace
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
How the hell can sunscreen age your skin?
WTF! Can you not read the excerpt. It is from a book..do you know what that is? A book?
You make absolutely no sense. What part of the paragraph on the chemicals leading to skin cancer don't you understand.
Cnn actually did a report on this two weeks ago. Do you live under a rock?
Are the words to just too big...Just let me know and I will define them for you.
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Originally posted by tj
Moron, if this were from a book and if you're such a genius, like I said before why don't you name this book with the ISBN or Amazon.com link. Let me read it up fully before uneducated people start walking around in the sun for hours getting their skin fried and juiced for cancer without skin protection.Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
How the hell can sunscreen age your skin?
WTF! Can you not read the excerpt. It is from a book..do you know what that is? A book?
You make absolutely no sense. What part of the paragraph on the chemicals leading to skin cancer don't you understand.
Cnn actually did a report on this two weeks ago. Do you live under a rock?
Are the words to just too big...Just let me know and I will define them for you.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I agree it is funny. But sad funny...very, very sad funny. You guys won't understand this comment for a couple of years to come..but that is okay.Originally posted by King of You
^^lmao...uncalled for but funny.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.