"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to lose a girl in 10 days

LADawg49

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Fellas, remember a few years ago the movie, "How to lose a guy in 10 days"? I saw it and it was aight. But from experiences, here is my list on how to lose a girl in 10 days:
1. Tell her you love her everyday.
2. Shower her with gifts, cards, and love notes frequently.
3. Tell her how beautiful and special she is frequently.
4. lTell her, "I need you and could never live without you."
5. Tell her "You are my love and no matter what, I will always love you".
6. Write her love poems frequently.
7. Tell her all your feelings/thoughts before she tells you any of hers.
8. Ask her, "Would you like to be my girlfriend?"
9. Never argue with her and always do what she tells you to do.
10. Give her everything she wants and hand over your power to her.
11. Talk to her for hours on the phone everyday.
12. Call her many times a day.
If you do all of these things you are guarenteed to lose your girl in 10 days.. Any others yall can think of to add to the list?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Modro

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how to lose one in 2 seconds

Im GAY
 

Scrumtulescence

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Coming off as weak. Asking her timidly if she wants to do stuff instead of saying "yo tomorrow let's do this, pick ya up at 8", and acting apologetic, etc.
 

MtnBikingGuy

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Originally posted by Dukester
being late constantly, and having no excuse or a bs excuse
What? I'm ALWAYS late (up to an hour often) and I stand up the girls I date all the time, often with no message or notice, just leave them wondering where I am. Seems to spike attraction. One of those things that makes no sense but works for me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rgeere

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Accuse her every time belch and fart while scarfing down a few zillion twinkies you just bought from the nearest convience store.

Hell, make that the way you freaking date ... Your name will spread with disgust from within a 50 mile radius of you.
 

rgeere

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Accuse her every time belch and fart while scarfing down a few zillion twinkies you just bought from the nearest convience store.

Hell, make that the way you freaking date ... Your name will spread with disgust from within a 50 mile radius of you.
 

Phantasmal

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I had a girl that wanted me to do all of those things. I supplicated, but my heart wasn't in it. However, for TWO AND A HALF YEARS I did that stuff, and she actually liked it.
 

idiot_boyfriend

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Ten days?

You can lose a girl in five seconds: "It's over, bìtch."

Done.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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