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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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How to look pimp in a tux shirt and black slacks?

eggnawgkid

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So anyway our school band has to go play at some college this weekend and we have to wear a tux shirt and black pants all day long (including 5 hours on the bus). How could I make it fit my style a bit more for the bus ride at least? I usually wear collared shirts with only the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th from the bottom buttons done. Basically I dress preppy and all that AE and A&F stuff. I've got a bow tie and cumberbun too but I only have to wear that for the performance. Is it gonna look retarded if I have most of the buttons undone and the shirt untucked with a pleated tux shirt?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJmike

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bring some kind of button up under it. maybe pink or somethin and wear some white etnies or dc shoes. kinda be loose and dont tuck anything in
 

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maybe its just me and my opinion, but you can conform and look clean and nice and dressed up for one day, it is going to look stupid if you ask me to leave any buttons undone or to not tuck something in, when people do that at gatherings, they are always laughed and looked down upon behind their backs even by other kids or young adults.
 

eggnawgkid

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Yea I was planning on leaving it tucked in because it's really long but hanging out a bit and unbuttoning the top two or so buttons. But if you all think it'll just make me look stupid then obviously I'll conform. I would still leave one button undone at the top because it chokes me but that's all. Should I wear my black dress shoes on the bus or stick with my tennis shoes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tactic

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you're a dumbass
 
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