"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to look pimp in a tux shirt and black slacks?

eggnawgkid

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So anyway our school band has to go play at some college this weekend and we have to wear a tux shirt and black pants all day long (including 5 hours on the bus). How could I make it fit my style a bit more for the bus ride at least? I usually wear collared shirts with only the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th from the bottom buttons done. Basically I dress preppy and all that AE and A&F stuff. I've got a bow tie and cumberbun too but I only have to wear that for the performance. Is it gonna look retarded if I have most of the buttons undone and the shirt untucked with a pleated tux shirt?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJmike

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bring some kind of button up under it. maybe pink or somethin and wear some white etnies or dc shoes. kinda be loose and dont tuck anything in
 

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maybe its just me and my opinion, but you can conform and look clean and nice and dressed up for one day, it is going to look stupid if you ask me to leave any buttons undone or to not tuck something in, when people do that at gatherings, they are always laughed and looked down upon behind their backs even by other kids or young adults.
 

eggnawgkid

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Yea I was planning on leaving it tucked in because it's really long but hanging out a bit and unbuttoning the top two or so buttons. But if you all think it'll just make me look stupid then obviously I'll conform. I would still leave one button undone at the top because it chokes me but that's all. Should I wear my black dress shoes on the bus or stick with my tennis shoes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tactic

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you're a dumbass
 
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