"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to look more masculine?

Matt Rogers

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I have ash blond hair, and a very boyish look about me: think choirboy. As I have seen that girls tend to prefer more masculine looking guys, and I am not pretty enough to carry off a GQ look, I want to harden up my image.

I train with weights and have got myself up to a decent weight (around 185lbs at 6 feet) which helps a little bit. I have also learnt to deepen my voice.

Any other suggestions?

I have a picture but not as a webpage, so if anyone is good at this sort of stuff, PM me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NRM,

Can you explain what exercises you mean.

What about neck work, that would help I guess.
 

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pretty enough
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whats you big problem? your jaw not defined or something? If thats the problem. First try reducing BF%, but you've already done that. So I would recomend facial exercise, clench your jaw 1min 3x a day. is a good start.

Otherwise just learn to accept your gene's. Pretty boy isn't bad as long as you don't act feminen
 

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why would clenching your jaw help?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it builds muscle that will help thicken and define your jaw, same with all facial exercises. BUT if you have a high BF% then they won't do anything realy, because you can't see them.
 

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Stop wearing eyeliner and lipstick. :p
 
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