"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to look more masculine?

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I have ash blond hair, and a very boyish look about me: think choirboy. As I have seen that girls tend to prefer more masculine looking guys, and I am not pretty enough to carry off a GQ look, I want to harden up my image.

I train with weights and have got myself up to a decent weight (around 185lbs at 6 feet) which helps a little bit. I have also learnt to deepen my voice.

Any other suggestions?

I have a picture but not as a webpage, so if anyone is good at this sort of stuff, PM me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NRM,

Can you explain what exercises you mean.

What about neck work, that would help I guess.
 
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whats you big problem? your jaw not defined or something? If thats the problem. First try reducing BF%, but you've already done that. So I would recomend facial exercise, clench your jaw 1min 3x a day. is a good start.

Otherwise just learn to accept your gene's. Pretty boy isn't bad as long as you don't act feminen
 
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why would clenching your jaw help?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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it builds muscle that will help thicken and define your jaw, same with all facial exercises. BUT if you have a high BF% then they won't do anything realy, because you can't see them.
 
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Stop wearing eyeliner and lipstick. :p
 
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