"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

How to look more masculine?

Matt Rogers

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2003
Messages
618
Reaction score
4
I have ash blond hair, and a very boyish look about me: think choirboy. As I have seen that girls tend to prefer more masculine looking guys, and I am not pretty enough to carry off a GQ look, I want to harden up my image.

I train with weights and have got myself up to a decent weight (around 185lbs at 6 feet) which helps a little bit. I have also learnt to deepen my voice.

Any other suggestions?

I have a picture but not as a webpage, so if anyone is good at this sort of stuff, PM me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Alpine

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 21, 2004
Messages
1,576
Reaction score
3
Location
south west, uk
NRM,

Can you explain what exercises you mean.

What about neck work, that would help I guess.
 

CapiCrimini

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
600
Reaction score
0
Age
40
pretty enough
>>Elephant testosteone nurse...
Elephant testosterone...
>>Injecting Elephant Testosterone...
>> IT'S ALIVE!!!!

whats you big problem? your jaw not defined or something? If thats the problem. First try reducing BF%, but you've already done that. So I would recomend facial exercise, clench your jaw 1min 3x a day. is a good start.

Otherwise just learn to accept your gene's. Pretty boy isn't bad as long as you don't act feminen
 

undesputable

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 7, 2004
Messages
1,365
Reaction score
0
Location
who cares
why would clenching your jaw help?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

CapiCrimini

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
600
Reaction score
0
Age
40
it builds muscle that will help thicken and define your jaw, same with all facial exercises. BUT if you have a high BF% then they won't do anything realy, because you can't see them.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Stop wearing eyeliner and lipstick. :p
 
Top