You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
True - but when they compare physiqes - I Win, hands down.switch said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Pure, you nailed it. Why only work the glammor muscles? Should I become one of those guys with a huge upper body that has to wear sweatpants to hide his legs? Why the fvck would anyone do that? It's funny that this is what is being promoted on the sosuave health forums these days.Purefilth said:True - but when they compare physiqes - I Win, hands down.
chest and arms boys aint got no back. I got back I gots aaallll dat
Dont just train the bits you think the girls like. The girls dont matter and if they did, they all like different things anyway.
Be awesome all over.
Actually - Big traps are "intimidating" according to some girls.
Oh well - could give a fvck what they think
I can proudly wear shorts now too - I got some Quads and a lil bit of calf. Aint much, but its more than the next man (Cap'n Sweatpants)TyTe`EyEz said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What a fraud :yawn:switch said: