"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to keep interest

Bgarrido

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What's up guys, I've been spinning a couple of plates but to be perfectly honest there's only one that I actually care about and I was wondering if someone could give me some tips about the situation.

Basically I went to SAT prep with this girl all summer and we talked a lot, after the class was over didn't really talk much but bumped into her last night at a party and she was really happy to see me. After the party hit her up on fb, I rebuilt that rapport and number closed. Now she's really nerdy so I told her we should hang out but she said she couldn't till after AP tests are over with, that's like a month from now and since we go to different high schools i don't know how to keep the interest level up without face to face contact and without texting/fbing her often so much as to seem annoying or clingy. Thoughts??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NorwegianDJ

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BPH said:
I created the thread Ask Me Questions to centralize stuff like this and de-clutter the high school forum. Therefore I will not answer these types of questions by searching for them.
Perhaps someone just wants an array of opinions on their situation.

I think APs are around 15th of May? I'd pursue the date further, then if that doesnt work out, I'd leave the whole thing for after APs.
 

Jack Wealthy

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Don't bother trying to get her to hang out during AP, from what I understand of American academics it's an important thing. Also don't bother trying to keep interest up during texting because that isn't what it's for. Text her something like "No worries, we'll do something in four weeks then.
 

alxrose04

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It's kinda tough to keep up the high level of attraction over that amount of time, especially without face to face contact. You should definitely keep in contact with her over that time just so you don't fall into the background. As soon as AP's are over, then you kick it up a notch and push for more face to face meetings.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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