"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how to keep from falling into friend zone

kickureface

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ive been very social to everyone i met recently but i cant run game on all of them, not that much time. i'm sure you guys kjnow what i mean.
im just wondering what makes you fall into friend zone just in case i decide to pursue some of htem later on, and what to do to not fall into it. a little detail would be excellent. thanks!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kickureface

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hmmm
ever hear of sexual tension? i've seen it a lot but am not completelyt sure as to what it is.
does keeping sexual tension help?
 

Charm

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You can act like a friendly person, but falling into friendzone happens when instead of making an advance and having a sexual attitude, you have a friendly lets just hang out in one anothers presence attitude. You must press forward, be bold and take initiative.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Old School

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From very early on you need to make your intentions obvious. It may seem bold, but you need to let a girl know that you find her sexy...
 

Charm

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Good tip Old School. That however is not a one time deal. You have to maintain that attitude, without SAYING it over and over to her. She has to feel that you make her feel sexy just through your confidence and interest in letting her SPEND time with YOU.
 

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If you want to be shallow but C&F, a fun thing to say is that "Girl, im all about image. I cant help that a beautiful woman wants to be around me and I love arm-candy!"

It might sound real arrogant but gets a lot of laughs and conveys interest.
 
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