"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how to keep from falling into friend zone

kickureface

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ive been very social to everyone i met recently but i cant run game on all of them, not that much time. i'm sure you guys kjnow what i mean.
im just wondering what makes you fall into friend zone just in case i decide to pursue some of htem later on, and what to do to not fall into it. a little detail would be excellent. thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hmmm
ever hear of sexual tension? i've seen it a lot but am not completelyt sure as to what it is.
does keeping sexual tension help?
 

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You can act like a friendly person, but falling into friendzone happens when instead of making an advance and having a sexual attitude, you have a friendly lets just hang out in one anothers presence attitude. You must press forward, be bold and take initiative.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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From very early on you need to make your intentions obvious. It may seem bold, but you need to let a girl know that you find her sexy...
 

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Good tip Old School. That however is not a one time deal. You have to maintain that attitude, without SAYING it over and over to her. She has to feel that you make her feel sexy just through your confidence and interest in letting her SPEND time with YOU.
 

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If you want to be shallow but C&F, a fun thing to say is that "Girl, im all about image. I cant help that a beautiful woman wants to be around me and I love arm-candy!"

It might sound real arrogant but gets a lot of laughs and conveys interest.
 
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