"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how to keep from falling into friend zone

kickureface

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ive been very social to everyone i met recently but i cant run game on all of them, not that much time. i'm sure you guys kjnow what i mean.
im just wondering what makes you fall into friend zone just in case i decide to pursue some of htem later on, and what to do to not fall into it. a little detail would be excellent. thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kickureface

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hmmm
ever hear of sexual tension? i've seen it a lot but am not completelyt sure as to what it is.
does keeping sexual tension help?
 

Charm

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You can act like a friendly person, but falling into friendzone happens when instead of making an advance and having a sexual attitude, you have a friendly lets just hang out in one anothers presence attitude. You must press forward, be bold and take initiative.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Old School

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From very early on you need to make your intentions obvious. It may seem bold, but you need to let a girl know that you find her sexy...
 

Charm

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Good tip Old School. That however is not a one time deal. You have to maintain that attitude, without SAYING it over and over to her. She has to feel that you make her feel sexy just through your confidence and interest in letting her SPEND time with YOU.
 

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If you want to be shallow but C&F, a fun thing to say is that "Girl, im all about image. I cant help that a beautiful woman wants to be around me and I love arm-candy!"

It might sound real arrogant but gets a lot of laughs and conveys interest.
 
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