"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to just hook up with this girl...dam i was SO close!

shark

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I wanted to hook up with this chick about 2 months ago or so. She wanted to as well, but she was weird. Kinda avoided me that night and the next day was unsure if she wanted me anymore (according to her good friends).

I decided not to talk to her and chase her, and rather play it cool. I actually REALLY liked her, a lot. I was hurt...that lasted all of 4 days though and i started to forget her.

This week i'm talking to her, and she brings us up and how we were going to hook up and asked if i still would..i said yeah and so did she.

LAST NIGHT...we're all hanging out and she gives me the hint that she wants to h/u. We're alone for a minute, before i can do anything two of my guy friends (**** blocks) come up and ruin it. later in the night i get us alone and we start talking and she tells me how she was debating h/u the whole night b/c her friend (she says she is one of her best friends) likes me. I DON'T like her. Her friends know i dont like her. So she decided she kinda didn't wanna h/u with me WITHOUT talking to her first. After a long talk she made me promise not to tell ppl if we DID or DIDN'T h/u. Weird...

so the thing is..i WANT this girl. but i dont want to be "rejected" in someway like i sort of was the first time...even though it wasn't really flat out.

HOW DO I CLOSE THE DEAL!? :)

Do i talk to her alot? Do i just don't talk to her alot and then maybe mention somtin to her about hanging out next weekend. I need some advice here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Reach
Tray and kiss her.
Agreed. If she doesnt want to, shes not interested and shes just wasting your time.
 

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Probly just messing with your head. Go for it one more time if not then next her.
 
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