"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to just hook up with this girl...dam i was SO close!

shark

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I wanted to hook up with this chick about 2 months ago or so. She wanted to as well, but she was weird. Kinda avoided me that night and the next day was unsure if she wanted me anymore (according to her good friends).

I decided not to talk to her and chase her, and rather play it cool. I actually REALLY liked her, a lot. I was hurt...that lasted all of 4 days though and i started to forget her.

This week i'm talking to her, and she brings us up and how we were going to hook up and asked if i still would..i said yeah and so did she.

LAST NIGHT...we're all hanging out and she gives me the hint that she wants to h/u. We're alone for a minute, before i can do anything two of my guy friends (**** blocks) come up and ruin it. later in the night i get us alone and we start talking and she tells me how she was debating h/u the whole night b/c her friend (she says she is one of her best friends) likes me. I DON'T like her. Her friends know i dont like her. So she decided she kinda didn't wanna h/u with me WITHOUT talking to her first. After a long talk she made me promise not to tell ppl if we DID or DIDN'T h/u. Weird...

so the thing is..i WANT this girl. but i dont want to be "rejected" in someway like i sort of was the first time...even though it wasn't really flat out.

HOW DO I CLOSE THE DEAL!? :)

Do i talk to her alot? Do i just don't talk to her alot and then maybe mention somtin to her about hanging out next weekend. I need some advice here.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Reach
Tray and kiss her.
Agreed. If she doesnt want to, shes not interested and shes just wasting your time.
 

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Probly just messing with your head. Go for it one more time if not then next her.
 
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