"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to just hook up with this girl...dam i was SO close!

shark

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I wanted to hook up with this chick about 2 months ago or so. She wanted to as well, but she was weird. Kinda avoided me that night and the next day was unsure if she wanted me anymore (according to her good friends).

I decided not to talk to her and chase her, and rather play it cool. I actually REALLY liked her, a lot. I was hurt...that lasted all of 4 days though and i started to forget her.

This week i'm talking to her, and she brings us up and how we were going to hook up and asked if i still would..i said yeah and so did she.

LAST NIGHT...we're all hanging out and she gives me the hint that she wants to h/u. We're alone for a minute, before i can do anything two of my guy friends (**** blocks) come up and ruin it. later in the night i get us alone and we start talking and she tells me how she was debating h/u the whole night b/c her friend (she says she is one of her best friends) likes me. I DON'T like her. Her friends know i dont like her. So she decided she kinda didn't wanna h/u with me WITHOUT talking to her first. After a long talk she made me promise not to tell ppl if we DID or DIDN'T h/u. Weird...

so the thing is..i WANT this girl. but i dont want to be "rejected" in someway like i sort of was the first time...even though it wasn't really flat out.

HOW DO I CLOSE THE DEAL!? :)

Do i talk to her alot? Do i just don't talk to her alot and then maybe mention somtin to her about hanging out next weekend. I need some advice here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Layla

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Originally posted by Reach
Tray and kiss her.
Agreed. If she doesnt want to, shes not interested and shes just wasting your time.
 

DA KID

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Probly just messing with your head. Go for it one more time if not then next her.
 
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