Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to just hook up with this girl...dam i was SO close!

shark

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I wanted to hook up with this chick about 2 months ago or so. She wanted to as well, but she was weird. Kinda avoided me that night and the next day was unsure if she wanted me anymore (according to her good friends).

I decided not to talk to her and chase her, and rather play it cool. I actually REALLY liked her, a lot. I was hurt...that lasted all of 4 days though and i started to forget her.

This week i'm talking to her, and she brings us up and how we were going to hook up and asked if i still would..i said yeah and so did she.

LAST NIGHT...we're all hanging out and she gives me the hint that she wants to h/u. We're alone for a minute, before i can do anything two of my guy friends (**** blocks) come up and ruin it. later in the night i get us alone and we start talking and she tells me how she was debating h/u the whole night b/c her friend (she says she is one of her best friends) likes me. I DON'T like her. Her friends know i dont like her. So she decided she kinda didn't wanna h/u with me WITHOUT talking to her first. After a long talk she made me promise not to tell ppl if we DID or DIDN'T h/u. Weird...

so the thing is..i WANT this girl. but i dont want to be "rejected" in someway like i sort of was the first time...even though it wasn't really flat out.

HOW DO I CLOSE THE DEAL!? :)

Do i talk to her alot? Do i just don't talk to her alot and then maybe mention somtin to her about hanging out next weekend. I need some advice here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Reach
Tray and kiss her.
Agreed. If she doesnt want to, shes not interested and shes just wasting your time.
 

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Probly just messing with your head. Go for it one more time if not then next her.
 
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