"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how to initiate contact again?

Anchorman

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Hey. This is kind of an awkward question. I use to date this chick back in high school. Ended up cheating on me, I dumped her. This opened my eyes a lot. A year later me and this chick still chat from time to time because I went to the same school and had the same classes, so it was kind of unavoidable. I guess I played my game right and didnt even think about her, so it made her want me back because she subtly asked me if I wanted to be fvck buddies. We did our thing and stopped talking, she got a bf and everything.

Now this is a year from that time, and even though we dont talk, I get the hint that she still wants teh kawk because she randomly initiated contact with me again on myspace.

Here is my question; I don't have her phone # any more, all i got is her myspace/facebook. What would be a good way to test her interest level via those sources without coming off like a creepy bastard, because we all know thats what you will get labeled if you try to pick up on myspace or facebook?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Five To One

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message her and say "hey i was thinking about you the other day, I wanna hang out sometime soon" or something similiar


The girl has known you for years, she isnt going to think your being creepy. It will flatter her that she crossed your mind and you miss her enough to want to see her again.


Worse thing that can come from this direct and straight to the point message is she doesnt reply. No big deal, right?


Don't think of this as a pickup what-soever. Shes an old friend that you want to hook up with again.

Good luck.
 

Anchorman

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Five To One said:
Don't think of this as a pickup what-soever. Shes an old friend that you want to hook up with again.
I see your point. yeah il drop her a line with something like that and see where it goes. I dont really talk to her so if i get rejected, f it
 
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