"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how to initiate contact again?

Anchorman

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Hey. This is kind of an awkward question. I use to date this chick back in high school. Ended up cheating on me, I dumped her. This opened my eyes a lot. A year later me and this chick still chat from time to time because I went to the same school and had the same classes, so it was kind of unavoidable. I guess I played my game right and didnt even think about her, so it made her want me back because she subtly asked me if I wanted to be fvck buddies. We did our thing and stopped talking, she got a bf and everything.

Now this is a year from that time, and even though we dont talk, I get the hint that she still wants teh kawk because she randomly initiated contact with me again on myspace.

Here is my question; I don't have her phone # any more, all i got is her myspace/facebook. What would be a good way to test her interest level via those sources without coming off like a creepy bastard, because we all know thats what you will get labeled if you try to pick up on myspace or facebook?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Five To One

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message her and say "hey i was thinking about you the other day, I wanna hang out sometime soon" or something similiar


The girl has known you for years, she isnt going to think your being creepy. It will flatter her that she crossed your mind and you miss her enough to want to see her again.


Worse thing that can come from this direct and straight to the point message is she doesnt reply. No big deal, right?


Don't think of this as a pickup what-soever. Shes an old friend that you want to hook up with again.

Good luck.
 

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Five To One said:
Don't think of this as a pickup what-soever. Shes an old friend that you want to hook up with again.
I see your point. yeah il drop her a line with something like that and see where it goes. I dont really talk to her so if i get rejected, f it
 
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