Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how to initiate contact again?

Anchorman

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Hey. This is kind of an awkward question. I use to date this chick back in high school. Ended up cheating on me, I dumped her. This opened my eyes a lot. A year later me and this chick still chat from time to time because I went to the same school and had the same classes, so it was kind of unavoidable. I guess I played my game right and didnt even think about her, so it made her want me back because she subtly asked me if I wanted to be fvck buddies. We did our thing and stopped talking, she got a bf and everything.

Now this is a year from that time, and even though we dont talk, I get the hint that she still wants teh kawk because she randomly initiated contact with me again on myspace.

Here is my question; I don't have her phone # any more, all i got is her myspace/facebook. What would be a good way to test her interest level via those sources without coming off like a creepy bastard, because we all know thats what you will get labeled if you try to pick up on myspace or facebook?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Five To One

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message her and say "hey i was thinking about you the other day, I wanna hang out sometime soon" or something similiar


The girl has known you for years, she isnt going to think your being creepy. It will flatter her that she crossed your mind and you miss her enough to want to see her again.


Worse thing that can come from this direct and straight to the point message is she doesnt reply. No big deal, right?


Don't think of this as a pickup what-soever. Shes an old friend that you want to hook up with again.

Good luck.
 

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Five To One said:
Don't think of this as a pickup what-soever. Shes an old friend that you want to hook up with again.
I see your point. yeah il drop her a line with something like that and see where it goes. I dont really talk to her so if i get rejected, f it
 
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