"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how to increase social status?

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somthing im about to work on, how do u increase it within a hole group,females and males.


any good examples?
perhaps some books to read or sites?
cheers:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what do u mean? increase the peoples opinions of you? or just so they place a higher value in talking to u etc
 
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Believe that you have high status and act accordingly - it will become a self fullfilling prophecy
 
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Krang! said:
Believe that you have high status and act accordingly - it will become a self fullfilling prophecy
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Yes and no. You have to be able to BACK IT UP. You may get some people fooled, but when they ask what you do for a living, it better be congruent with your "high-status" behavior or you'll come off as a poser. Make it, don't fake it.
 
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Try http://www.womenapproachyou.com . This would lie in the John Alanis concept. Best material to read on subject if you are dedicated.

In a nut-shell, you have to be in a position of perceived authority because that triggers the attraction signals of a woman. Be a security guard at a mall, or a public speaker, or someone in charge, etc.... stuff like that.

I purchased materials and got a refund after. This guy honours his money back guarantee, try it out, risk free.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No need to read or buy anything. That's a waste of money.

Just be social. Talk to everyone. Be funny. Make decisions for the group, like where to go or when to leave. Do things that the rest of your group is afraid to do, like talking to that HB9 over yonder. Help everyone, and become the person that everyone turns to for advice.

Just be the leader.
 
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