"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to increase social status?

Dean

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somthing im about to work on, how do u increase it within a hole group,females and males.


any good examples?
perhaps some books to read or sites?
cheers:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ye yeah

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what do u mean? increase the peoples opinions of you? or just so they place a higher value in talking to u etc
 

Krang!

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Believe that you have high status and act accordingly - it will become a self fullfilling prophecy
 

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Krang! said:
Believe that you have high status and act accordingly - it will become a self fullfilling prophecy
Yes and no. You have to be able to BACK IT UP. You may get some people fooled, but when they ask what you do for a living, it better be congruent with your "high-status" behavior or you'll come off as a poser. Make it, don't fake it.
 
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Try http://www.womenapproachyou.com . This would lie in the John Alanis concept. Best material to read on subject if you are dedicated.

In a nut-shell, you have to be in a position of perceived authority because that triggers the attraction signals of a woman. Be a security guard at a mall, or a public speaker, or someone in charge, etc.... stuff like that.

I purchased materials and got a refund after. This guy honours his money back guarantee, try it out, risk free.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No need to read or buy anything. That's a waste of money.

Just be social. Talk to everyone. Be funny. Make decisions for the group, like where to go or when to leave. Do things that the rest of your group is afraid to do, like talking to that HB9 over yonder. Help everyone, and become the person that everyone turns to for advice.

Just be the leader.
 
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