Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how to increase social status?

Dean

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somthing im about to work on, how do u increase it within a hole group,females and males.


any good examples?
perhaps some books to read or sites?
cheers:)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ye yeah

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what do u mean? increase the peoples opinions of you? or just so they place a higher value in talking to u etc
 

Krang!

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Believe that you have high status and act accordingly - it will become a self fullfilling prophecy
 

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Krang! said:
Believe that you have high status and act accordingly - it will become a self fullfilling prophecy
Yes and no. You have to be able to BACK IT UP. You may get some people fooled, but when they ask what you do for a living, it better be congruent with your "high-status" behavior or you'll come off as a poser. Make it, don't fake it.
 
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Try http://www.womenapproachyou.com . This would lie in the John Alanis concept. Best material to read on subject if you are dedicated.

In a nut-shell, you have to be in a position of perceived authority because that triggers the attraction signals of a woman. Be a security guard at a mall, or a public speaker, or someone in charge, etc.... stuff like that.

I purchased materials and got a refund after. This guy honours his money back guarantee, try it out, risk free.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No need to read or buy anything. That's a waste of money.

Just be social. Talk to everyone. Be funny. Make decisions for the group, like where to go or when to leave. Do things that the rest of your group is afraid to do, like talking to that HB9 over yonder. Help everyone, and become the person that everyone turns to for advice.

Just be the leader.
 
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