"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to improve conversation skills?

newplaya

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I'm going to buy conversation king next week, when i get my credit card sent out.

But what are the major ways to improve conversation skills, i;m not scared of approaching but i lack in conversation skills, i think that's a major reason most men don't approach besides rejection but getting rejected once or twice decreases your rejection fear (this is true for me).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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skinnydart

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The best way to improve conversation skills is to say the word 'SEARCH' over and over to yourself until something clicks.
Acutally, the results of a search for conversation doesn't yeild that much useful information.
 

Climax

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try this...

Originally posted by newplaya
I'm going to buy conversation king next week, when i get my credit card sent out.

But what are the major ways to improve conversation skills, i;m not scared of approaching but i lack in conversation skills, i think that's a major reason most men don't approach besides rejection but getting rejected once or twice decreases your rejection fear (this is true for me).
Befriending alot of girls and talking to them often will help in your conversation skills... actually, having one on one conversations with anyone often will improve your conversation skills... also try to improve your general knowledge, listen to the radio, learn new things, do new things etc, so that when u talk to a girl you will always have something new and exciting to talk about, and if u JUST met a girl, then make sure that you have more to tell her besides for all the hours you spent in front of the tv and/or computer.. so go out, do things, live life, have fun, and be exciting;)

I'm on my way out, so i cant write a longer post, but i hope this helped...;)


Laterz...
 

squirrels

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Originally posted by dearsappho
The best way to improve conversation skills is to say the word 'SEARCH' over and over to yourself until something clicks.
Yes, because conversation skills are best improved by reading some "DJ Bible" on some Internet forum, not by actually speaking to other people....

...no, wait...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Climax

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Meet squirrels the "funny-man";)

Originally posted by squirrels
Yes, because conversation skills are best improved by reading some "DJ Bible" on some Internet forum, not by actually speaking to other people....

...no, wait...

lol:p
 
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