"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to improve conversation skills?

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I'm going to buy conversation king next week, when i get my credit card sent out.

But what are the major ways to improve conversation skills, i;m not scared of approaching but i lack in conversation skills, i think that's a major reason most men don't approach besides rejection but getting rejected once or twice decreases your rejection fear (this is true for me).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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skinnydart

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The best way to improve conversation skills is to say the word 'SEARCH' over and over to yourself until something clicks.
Acutally, the results of a search for conversation doesn't yeild that much useful information.
 

Climax

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try this...

Originally posted by newplaya
I'm going to buy conversation king next week, when i get my credit card sent out.

But what are the major ways to improve conversation skills, i;m not scared of approaching but i lack in conversation skills, i think that's a major reason most men don't approach besides rejection but getting rejected once or twice decreases your rejection fear (this is true for me).
Befriending alot of girls and talking to them often will help in your conversation skills... actually, having one on one conversations with anyone often will improve your conversation skills... also try to improve your general knowledge, listen to the radio, learn new things, do new things etc, so that when u talk to a girl you will always have something new and exciting to talk about, and if u JUST met a girl, then make sure that you have more to tell her besides for all the hours you spent in front of the tv and/or computer.. so go out, do things, live life, have fun, and be exciting;)

I'm on my way out, so i cant write a longer post, but i hope this helped...;)


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by dearsappho
The best way to improve conversation skills is to say the word 'SEARCH' over and over to yourself until something clicks.
Yes, because conversation skills are best improved by reading some "DJ Bible" on some Internet forum, not by actually speaking to other people....

...no, wait...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Climax

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Meet squirrels the "funny-man";)

Originally posted by squirrels
Yes, because conversation skills are best improved by reading some "DJ Bible" on some Internet forum, not by actually speaking to other people....

...no, wait...

lol:p
 
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