"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to improve conversation skills?

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I'm going to buy conversation king next week, when i get my credit card sent out.

But what are the major ways to improve conversation skills, i;m not scared of approaching but i lack in conversation skills, i think that's a major reason most men don't approach besides rejection but getting rejected once or twice decreases your rejection fear (this is true for me).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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skinnydart

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The best way to improve conversation skills is to say the word 'SEARCH' over and over to yourself until something clicks.
Acutally, the results of a search for conversation doesn't yeild that much useful information.
 

Climax

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try this...

Originally posted by newplaya
I'm going to buy conversation king next week, when i get my credit card sent out.

But what are the major ways to improve conversation skills, i;m not scared of approaching but i lack in conversation skills, i think that's a major reason most men don't approach besides rejection but getting rejected once or twice decreases your rejection fear (this is true for me).
Befriending alot of girls and talking to them often will help in your conversation skills... actually, having one on one conversations with anyone often will improve your conversation skills... also try to improve your general knowledge, listen to the radio, learn new things, do new things etc, so that when u talk to a girl you will always have something new and exciting to talk about, and if u JUST met a girl, then make sure that you have more to tell her besides for all the hours you spent in front of the tv and/or computer.. so go out, do things, live life, have fun, and be exciting;)

I'm on my way out, so i cant write a longer post, but i hope this helped...;)


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by dearsappho
The best way to improve conversation skills is to say the word 'SEARCH' over and over to yourself until something clicks.
Yes, because conversation skills are best improved by reading some "DJ Bible" on some Internet forum, not by actually speaking to other people....

...no, wait...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Climax

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Meet squirrels the "funny-man";)

Originally posted by squirrels
Yes, because conversation skills are best improved by reading some "DJ Bible" on some Internet forum, not by actually speaking to other people....

...no, wait...

lol:p
 
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