"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to improve conversation skills?

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I'm going to buy conversation king next week, when i get my credit card sent out.

But what are the major ways to improve conversation skills, i;m not scared of approaching but i lack in conversation skills, i think that's a major reason most men don't approach besides rejection but getting rejected once or twice decreases your rejection fear (this is true for me).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The best way to improve conversation skills is to say the word 'SEARCH' over and over to yourself until something clicks.
Acutally, the results of a search for conversation doesn't yeild that much useful information.
 

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try this...

Originally posted by newplaya
I'm going to buy conversation king next week, when i get my credit card sent out.

But what are the major ways to improve conversation skills, i;m not scared of approaching but i lack in conversation skills, i think that's a major reason most men don't approach besides rejection but getting rejected once or twice decreases your rejection fear (this is true for me).
Befriending alot of girls and talking to them often will help in your conversation skills... actually, having one on one conversations with anyone often will improve your conversation skills... also try to improve your general knowledge, listen to the radio, learn new things, do new things etc, so that when u talk to a girl you will always have something new and exciting to talk about, and if u JUST met a girl, then make sure that you have more to tell her besides for all the hours you spent in front of the tv and/or computer.. so go out, do things, live life, have fun, and be exciting;)

I'm on my way out, so i cant write a longer post, but i hope this helped...;)


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by dearsappho
The best way to improve conversation skills is to say the word 'SEARCH' over and over to yourself until something clicks.
Yes, because conversation skills are best improved by reading some "DJ Bible" on some Internet forum, not by actually speaking to other people....

...no, wait...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Climax

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Meet squirrels the "funny-man";)

Originally posted by squirrels
Yes, because conversation skills are best improved by reading some "DJ Bible" on some Internet forum, not by actually speaking to other people....

...no, wait...

lol:p
 
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