"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to hookup in parties?

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Going to a party w/ booze and tons and tons of hot girls.. and did i mention booze?

Just wondering how do you guys hook up w/ girls in parties. Especially the ones you don't know.

I have no idea how all this goes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dance. Kino. Attraction establishment. Go for the kill.
 
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Uhh...it all starts with talking to them. Create attration, isolate, make a move. The same as going on a date, just an accelerated process with mass alcohol consumption.
 
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Whew. I'm so glad nobody said to go read the bible.

Thing is i've never actually hooked up with anyone in a party before so I'm absolutely clueless. Going around asking people for opinion's wouldn't be a great idea either.

I go to these parties all the time and when I arrive a couple of people are already hooking up (making out, kissing, some even having sex) and I just don't know how it got there. I mean these people are from different schools.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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iCandy said:
I go to these parties all the time and when I arrive a couple of people are already hooking up (making out, kissing, some even having sex) and I just don't know how it got there. I mean these people are from different schools.
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There was a recent study done on this subject. They found out that the following formula held true to this certain situation.

Sluts + Alcohol = Easy sex
 
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