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How to hookup in parties?

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iCandy

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Going to a party w/ booze and tons and tons of hot girls.. and did i mention booze?

Just wondering how do you guys hook up w/ girls in parties. Especially the ones you don't know.

I have no idea how all this goes.
 

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Dance. Kino. Attraction establishment. Go for the kill.
 

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Uhh...it all starts with talking to them. Create attration, isolate, make a move. The same as going on a date, just an accelerated process with mass alcohol consumption.
 

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Whew. I'm so glad nobody said to go read the bible.

Thing is i've never actually hooked up with anyone in a party before so I'm absolutely clueless. Going around asking people for opinion's wouldn't be a great idea either.

I go to these parties all the time and when I arrive a couple of people are already hooking up (making out, kissing, some even having sex) and I just don't know how it got there. I mean these people are from different schools.
 

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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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iCandy said:
I go to these parties all the time and when I arrive a couple of people are already hooking up (making out, kissing, some even having sex) and I just don't know how it got there. I mean these people are from different schools.
There was a recent study done on this subject. They found out that the following formula held true to this certain situation.

Sluts + Alcohol = Easy sex
 
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