I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Short Answer: marry a woman of a lower SMV than your own, whom possess sufficient nurturing qualities and mentions being a wife and mother as more important than her career.
So if I freeze the woman I can have kids with her safely?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What do you think about marrying someone who is financially better off than me?
You’ll be her b tch. She will never truly respect you.
Talk this over with a therapist. No offense guy but this whole idea sounds sick. Therapy is good they can talk you through what you actually want and the root of why you think these are good ideas.
Never met a therapist equipped with the tools to even begin scratching the surface of my psyche. My logic is undeniable though, can't ignore that.
Look harder. What you want suggests a professional opinion would be helpful.
I didn't say I wanted it. Maybe you should consult an English reading comprehension specialist?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Volunteer taking cancer patients to their appointments. They have sooooo many appointments(my Dad had cancer)
He said ceiling though.
I did that..... and she tried to make me her ***** and i had to fight her. But today every woman will try to make you her ***** once she got the ring and the kid, because the legal system and society supports this. The difference is, a woman with no money will divorce-rape you while the higher income woman might have to pay you out of the marriage. (depending on the local laws)
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
^^^^ THIS.
True to the point that women in general have a megalomaniac view of their own SMV in the western world. BUT, the problem she will face is, there are no 7,8,9 and 10 men out there looking for a single mom in their 30s/40s for an LTR. If she makes good money, she is most likely smart enough to realize that as long as you stay the high-value-guy for her.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.