How to have kids without opening up to the potential of a woman destroying your life?

[Lookatu]

There's a lot of good points above.

I've said this again in my other posts and will say it again.

- Find someone that loves you more than you love her
- Find someone that is selfless
- Find someone that is nurturing
- Find someone that has a good family structure and looks highly of her dad
- Find someone without any hardcore feminist views
- Find someone without mental issues
- Find someone that treats EVERYONE good
- Find someone that is low maintenance. High maintenance girls wants everyone to take care of them. How can they be a good mother and take care of her own kids?
- Find someone that has gone through life's adversities with you or passed your $hit tests(losing a job, losing a loved one, going on international vacation, embarking on a house remodel or other big projects). This is a big thing to test for "for better or for worse" scenarios
-Find someone that will respect you even if you differ in your opinions on things
- Find someone that takes care of themselves(mentally, physically, spiritually)
- Find someone that can move past things and not forever hold grudges
- Find someone that is going to look up to you as the leader of the household
- Her having a lower SMV can help but ultimately everyone ages differently. Some smv's go up and some go down in the long run

I'm sure I'm missing a couple other items but after being married for over 13 years with kids this is the conclusion I came to.

Nothing is guaranteed in life but if she checks the list above, there is a high chance for success.