"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to have an accurate view of reality?

fuChelios

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be very social?
read lots of books?
take on a lot of challenging tasks?

what do you think? i want to know
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sirBill

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Some higher education.

Take some philosophy classes, think really really hard about what it means to be here, and what you think the world is and isn't.

Take some physics classes and explore the fundamental forces of nature, learn about the latest in quantum mechanics and what progress man has made towards grand unification.

Don't ignore the human element either, take sociology and humanities and learn about the ever-present lens by which everyone views the world, their own morals and culture. Travel, see other cultures, and learn.

Don't accept things, dive deep into situations and look for the underlying currents that produce the observable cues that could point to symmetry.

This applies universally, the best way to have an accurate view of reality is to think really hard about it.
 
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