"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to have an accurate view of reality?

fuChelios

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be very social?
read lots of books?
take on a lot of challenging tasks?

what do you think? i want to know
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sirBill

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Some higher education.

Take some philosophy classes, think really really hard about what it means to be here, and what you think the world is and isn't.

Take some physics classes and explore the fundamental forces of nature, learn about the latest in quantum mechanics and what progress man has made towards grand unification.

Don't ignore the human element either, take sociology and humanities and learn about the ever-present lens by which everyone views the world, their own morals and culture. Travel, see other cultures, and learn.

Don't accept things, dive deep into situations and look for the underlying currents that produce the observable cues that could point to symmetry.

This applies universally, the best way to have an accurate view of reality is to think really hard about it.
 
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