"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to have an accurate view of reality?

fuChelios

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be very social?
read lots of books?
take on a lot of challenging tasks?

what do you think? i want to know
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sirBill

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Some higher education.

Take some philosophy classes, think really really hard about what it means to be here, and what you think the world is and isn't.

Take some physics classes and explore the fundamental forces of nature, learn about the latest in quantum mechanics and what progress man has made towards grand unification.

Don't ignore the human element either, take sociology and humanities and learn about the ever-present lens by which everyone views the world, their own morals and culture. Travel, see other cultures, and learn.

Don't accept things, dive deep into situations and look for the underlying currents that produce the observable cues that could point to symmetry.

This applies universally, the best way to have an accurate view of reality is to think really hard about it.
 
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