How to handle Valentines Day?

[Kbish828]

I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now. It is going well, however we are definitely not bf/gf. So with valentines approaching, how do I handle it?

 

[TheException]

I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now. It is going well, however we are definitely not bf/gf. So with valentines approaching, how do I handle it?

You dont. If shes not your girlfriend...dont even bring it up.

 

[El Payaso]

What Exception said. Don't even text her and if she does, just respond normally like you usually do. No awkward greetings or cards or gifts.

 

[Arthy]

Give her your penis with a ribbon on it.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Bag of Skittles.

Actually a pretty good idea

 

[Bible_Belt]

It's not going to kill you to get her a card. If money is an issue, dollar stores will sell ten blank greeting cards for $1. Draw on it with a red marker, and it's a valentine's day card that cost you ten cents.

And I think cards are as dumb as anyone else does. But it represents an issue that took me a long time to learn in regard to women - the difference between being right and getting laid. There are countless things that you can say to women that are 100% factually correct, but yet will still drive them away. Yes, cards are dumb, and yes, v-day is dumb. These are correct statements, but they're not going to help you get laid.

 

[VladPatton]

If she's definitely not your GF, Valentine's Day shouldn't even bother you. Don't even bring it up. And she herself shouldn't even be concerned with it.

If this makes you feel bad or like an aṣṣhole, do something small for her. Either one won't be detrimental to your relationship. Just choose wisely.

 

[Starfvcks 64]

The last time I celebrated Valentines day I gave the girl Tekken 6 for xbox 360.

I traded it back to Gamestop a month later because it wasn't that fun, and ever since then I haven't seen a reason to celebrate V-day.

 

[May_Day]

There's a lot of single girls looking to have a Valentine and to celebrate the night. You don't need to buy her any gifts or give her any cards. Just take her out and enjoy the night like any other night. Don't put a big emphasis on it being Valentine's Day either. Just say let's go out that night. Then take her out.

Have a dinner, maybe see a movie, or do an action date, then get laid. That's all you really need to do, and since you've been dating for two months, it's appropriate to go out on a date. I've gone out with two girls that weren't my girlfriend's on V day and had sex with both of them. Girls get lonely on V Day and will have sex with you if you make it a good night. Don't force giving any gifts or making it out to be too much. That won't go over too well. People make too much out of Valentine's Day making you feel like you have to buy jewlery or expensive presents, it's just an observance. As long as you're spending it with a person you like, then that's all you really need to do.

Some of you say it's only for girlfriend's, that's not true, anybody can have a valentine and go out and have fun. Some of these sh1tty girlfriends that you write about don't even deserve a Valentine's day.

 

[Cremasta]

I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now. It is going well, however we are definitely not bf/gf. So with valentines approaching, how do I handle it?

Why would you pass up an opportunity to keep it going well? Nothing wrong with a bit of romance with a girl you've already invested some time in.

Just organise a picnic (roast chicken, smoked salmon, crackers, brie, bottle of wine... that kind of stuff) and head over to a nice beach/lake/river foreshore and throw down a blanket.

No need for a gift, but considering you've only been dating for a couple of months, you might want to ask her if she wants to do something with you on Valentines. You might be the only guy she's hanging out with, or you could just be one of her plates. Best to ask.

 

[backseatjuan]

Make the girl feel good man. Give her a gift, box of candy, bottle of whiskey, etc.

It's perfectly fine to gift women and men from time to time. Make them feel nice. It won't go unnoticed.

If you really like her, give a gift and plan a nice date, make her feel like the one.

Heck, in my country we sometimes gift an iphone, and sometimes a car. Just because.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1PH6Ki5Zdo

**** America.

 

[rascal99v]

You dont. If shes not your girlfriend...dont even bring it up.

What Exception said. Don't even text her and if she does, just respond normally like you usually do. No awkward greetings or cards or gifts.

Lame and even more Lame.

You're dating her right? Why would you not take her out? This could be your potential girlfriend right here. Dude, go out with her and set something up. Nothing too fancy, but have a night out with her. Avoiding the whole day would be stupid.

Some of this phony "alpha mentality" is going a little bit too far :yes:

 

[JohnChops]

Lame and even more Lame.

You're dating her right? Why would you not take her out? This could be your potential girlfriend right here. Dude, go out with her and set something up. Nothing too fancy, but have a night out with her. Avoiding the whole day would be stupid.

Some of this phony "alpha mentality" is going a little bit too far :yes:

i agree, take her out, have a good time. fvck what these other dudes say, half of them dont get laid anyway.

 

[papawapa]

Dont buy her a gift, but still give her one. Forget about taking her out. Have her come to your place and give her the best gift ever, great seks.

If you can cook, then you cook her a nice dinner. (If you can't cook then order some kick a$$ chinese) Have it with some wine and candles. After dinner cuddle up with her on the couch and put on a movie. You wont get past the first fifteen minutes and you will be banging.

 

[TheCleanPleb]

I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now. It is going well, however we are definitely not bf/gf. So with valentines approaching, how do I handle it?

As long as you're not that guy that goes out and buys her expensive jewelry and pays for an expensive ass meal.

What I'm doing with my friend is getting some movies from redbox, something to cook for dinner, cookie mix and bake cookies WITH her(or I might make her do it, whatever).

 

[bigneil]

I like to give those tiny Valentine's we used to give out in school. Cheap, innocent, romantic and effective.

 

[alberto25]

Do give her a small gift, maybe a Valentine, a box of candy.. girls do appreciate that...