"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to handle Valentines Day?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
TheException
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You dont. If shes not your girlfriend...dont even bring it up.Kbish828 said:
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Actually a pretty good ideasamspade said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
And I think cards are as dumb as anyone else does. But it represents an issue that took me a long time to learn in regard to women - the difference between being right and getting laid. There are countless things that you can say to women that are 100% factually correct, but yet will still drive them away. Yes, cards are dumb, and yes, v-day is dumb. These are correct statements, but they're not going to help you get laid.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
If this makes you feel bad or like an aṣṣhole, do something small for her. Either one won't be detrimental to your relationship. Just choose wisely.
Starfvcks 64
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I traded it back to Gamestop a month later because it wasn't that fun, and ever since then I haven't seen a reason to celebrate V-day.
Have a dinner, maybe see a movie, or do an action date, then get laid. That's all you really need to do, and since you've been dating for two months, it's appropriate to go out on a date. I've gone out with two girls that weren't my girlfriend's on V day and had sex with both of them. Girls get lonely on V Day and will have sex with you if you make it a good night. Don't force giving any gifts or making it out to be too much. That won't go over too well. People make too much out of Valentine's Day making you feel like you have to buy jewlery or expensive presents, it's just an observance. As long as you're spending it with a person you like, then that's all you really need to do.
Some of you say it's only for girlfriend's, that's not true, anybody can have a valentine and go out and have fun. Some of these sh1tty girlfriends that you write about don't even deserve a Valentine's day.
Why would you pass up an opportunity to keep it going well? Nothing wrong with a bit of romance with a girl you've already invested some time in.Kbish828 said:
Just organise a picnic (roast chicken, smoked salmon, crackers, brie, bottle of wine... that kind of stuff) and head over to a nice beach/lake/river foreshore and throw down a blanket.
No need for a gift, but considering you've only been dating for a couple of months, you might want to ask her if she wants to do something with you on Valentines. You might be the only guy she's hanging out with, or you could just be one of her plates. Best to ask.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backseatjuan
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It's perfectly fine to gift women and men from time to time. Make them feel nice. It won't go unnoticed.
If you really like her, give a gift and plan a nice date, make her feel like the one.
Heck, in my country we sometimes gift an iphone, and sometimes a car. Just because.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1PH6Ki5Zdo
**** America.
rascal99v
Senior Don Juan
TheException said:
El Payaso said:
Lame and even more Lame.
You're dating her right? Why would you not take her out? This could be your potential girlfriend right here. Dude, go out with her and set something up. Nothing too fancy, but have a night out with her. Avoiding the whole day would be stupid.
Some of this phony "alpha mentality" is going a little bit too far :yes:
JohnChops
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i agree, take her out, have a good time. fvck what these other dudes say, half of them dont get laid anyway.rascal99v said:
If you can cook, then you cook her a nice dinner. (If you can't cook then order some kick a$$ chinese) Have it with some wine and candles. After dinner cuddle up with her on the couch and put on a movie. You wont get past the first fifteen minutes and you will be banging.
TheCleanPleb
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As long as you're not that guy that goes out and buys her expensive jewelry and pays for an expensive ass meal.Kbish828 said:
What I'm doing with my friend is getting some movies from redbox, something to cook for dinner, cookie mix and bake cookies WITH her(or I might make her do it, whatever).
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
