Dante420
Master Don Juan
This subject doesn't seem to be touched upon, so what's the smoothest way to handle the situation of hanging out with a girl while she's around her male friend who's hitting on her?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to Handle this Situation: Hanging Out With a Girl & Her Male Friend
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Treat the guy as a Fat Ugly chick friend. In the initial stage, talk to him, turn on your charm, be friendly & cool, ask him about himself, let him run his mouth for a bit. THEN switch to the girl.
If you compete with him for the girl from the get-go, she will be the Prize and you guys are both disadvantaged. This is the most common scenario. Every girl loves lapping up the attention from both guys fighting for her without having to reciprocate.
If you're friendly & cool to him first, you're effectively lowering his shields (and her shields too) and neutralizing his threat. At the same time, you're establishing yourself as The Prize.
If the guy's rude to you, he's just lowering his value in the girl's eyes. It's then a simple matter to c0ckblock him.
Engage the guy while slowly drawing the girl into the interaction, until you feel that she's hooked by your charm and she feels that he's now just a nuisance getting in her way to be closer to you.
If you compete with him for the girl from the get-go, she will be the Prize and you guys are both disadvantaged. This is the most common scenario. Every girl loves lapping up the attention from both guys fighting for her without having to reciprocate.
If you're friendly & cool to him first, you're effectively lowering his shields (and her shields too) and neutralizing his threat. At the same time, you're establishing yourself as The Prize.
If the guy's rude to you, he's just lowering his value in the girl's eyes. It's then a simple matter to c0ckblock him.
Engage the guy while slowly drawing the girl into the interaction, until you feel that she's hooked by your charm and she feels that he's now just a nuisance getting in her way to be closer to you.
Hit him back, in the face preferably, make sure he has no teeth left, that way she won't be attracted to him anymore (that is if she was attracted).
I wonder why her friend is with her... Why o why wouldn't one of you have a solo date with her... Perhaps she isen't intrested in both of you? Perhaps this is why the subject isen't discussed?
By going with two guys somewhere she's kicking you guys in the nuts saying: "try harder or be my sl*ts", and clearly, you both are her sl*t, behave well and maybe you get a cookie
solution:
Ditch the b*tch
I wonder why her friend is with her... Why o why wouldn't one of you have a solo date with her... Perhaps she isen't intrested in both of you? Perhaps this is why the subject isen't discussed?
By going with two guys somewhere she's kicking you guys in the nuts saying: "try harder or be my sl*ts", and clearly, you both are her sl*t, behave well and maybe you get a cookie
solution:
Ditch the b*tch