Dante420
Master Don Juan
This subject doesn't seem to be touched upon, so what's the smoothest way to handle the situation of hanging out with a girl while she's around her male friend who's hitting on her?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to Handle this Situation: Hanging Out With a Girl & Her Male Friend
- Thread starter Dante420
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Treat the guy as a Fat Ugly chick friend. In the initial stage, talk to him, turn on your charm, be friendly & cool, ask him about himself, let him run his mouth for a bit. THEN switch to the girl.
If you compete with him for the girl from the get-go, she will be the Prize and you guys are both disadvantaged. This is the most common scenario. Every girl loves lapping up the attention from both guys fighting for her without having to reciprocate.
If you're friendly & cool to him first, you're effectively lowering his shields (and her shields too) and neutralizing his threat. At the same time, you're establishing yourself as The Prize.
If the guy's rude to you, he's just lowering his value in the girl's eyes. It's then a simple matter to c0ckblock him.
Engage the guy while slowly drawing the girl into the interaction, until you feel that she's hooked by your charm and she feels that he's now just a nuisance getting in her way to be closer to you.
If you compete with him for the girl from the get-go, she will be the Prize and you guys are both disadvantaged. This is the most common scenario. Every girl loves lapping up the attention from both guys fighting for her without having to reciprocate.
If you're friendly & cool to him first, you're effectively lowering his shields (and her shields too) and neutralizing his threat. At the same time, you're establishing yourself as The Prize.
If the guy's rude to you, he's just lowering his value in the girl's eyes. It's then a simple matter to c0ckblock him.
Engage the guy while slowly drawing the girl into the interaction, until you feel that she's hooked by your charm and she feels that he's now just a nuisance getting in her way to be closer to you.
Hit him back, in the face preferably, make sure he has no teeth left, that way she won't be attracted to him anymore (that is if she was attracted).
I wonder why her friend is with her... Why o why wouldn't one of you have a solo date with her... Perhaps she isen't intrested in both of you? Perhaps this is why the subject isen't discussed?
By going with two guys somewhere she's kicking you guys in the nuts saying: "try harder or be my sl*ts", and clearly, you both are her sl*t, behave well and maybe you get a cookie
solution:
Ditch the b*tch
I wonder why her friend is with her... Why o why wouldn't one of you have a solo date with her... Perhaps she isen't intrested in both of you? Perhaps this is why the subject isen't discussed?
By going with two guys somewhere she's kicking you guys in the nuts saying: "try harder or be my sl*ts", and clearly, you both are her sl*t, behave well and maybe you get a cookie
solution:
Ditch the b*tch