Dante420
Master Don Juan
This subject doesn't seem to be touched upon, so what's the smoothest way to handle the situation of hanging out with a girl while she's around her male friend who's hitting on her?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How to Handle this Situation: Hanging Out With a Girl & Her Male Friend
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Treat the guy as a Fat Ugly chick friend. In the initial stage, talk to him, turn on your charm, be friendly & cool, ask him about himself, let him run his mouth for a bit. THEN switch to the girl.
If you compete with him for the girl from the get-go, she will be the Prize and you guys are both disadvantaged. This is the most common scenario. Every girl loves lapping up the attention from both guys fighting for her without having to reciprocate.
If you're friendly & cool to him first, you're effectively lowering his shields (and her shields too) and neutralizing his threat. At the same time, you're establishing yourself as The Prize.
If the guy's rude to you, he's just lowering his value in the girl's eyes. It's then a simple matter to c0ckblock him.
Engage the guy while slowly drawing the girl into the interaction, until you feel that she's hooked by your charm and she feels that he's now just a nuisance getting in her way to be closer to you.
If you compete with him for the girl from the get-go, she will be the Prize and you guys are both disadvantaged. This is the most common scenario. Every girl loves lapping up the attention from both guys fighting for her without having to reciprocate.
If you're friendly & cool to him first, you're effectively lowering his shields (and her shields too) and neutralizing his threat. At the same time, you're establishing yourself as The Prize.
If the guy's rude to you, he's just lowering his value in the girl's eyes. It's then a simple matter to c0ckblock him.
Engage the guy while slowly drawing the girl into the interaction, until you feel that she's hooked by your charm and she feels that he's now just a nuisance getting in her way to be closer to you.
Hit him back, in the face preferably, make sure he has no teeth left, that way she won't be attracted to him anymore (that is if she was attracted).
I wonder why her friend is with her... Why o why wouldn't one of you have a solo date with her... Perhaps she isen't intrested in both of you? Perhaps this is why the subject isen't discussed?
By going with two guys somewhere she's kicking you guys in the nuts saying: "try harder or be my sl*ts", and clearly, you both are her sl*t, behave well and maybe you get a cookie
solution:
Ditch the b*tch
I wonder why her friend is with her... Why o why wouldn't one of you have a solo date with her... Perhaps she isen't intrested in both of you? Perhaps this is why the subject isen't discussed?
By going with two guys somewhere she's kicking you guys in the nuts saying: "try harder or be my sl*ts", and clearly, you both are her sl*t, behave well and maybe you get a cookie
solution:
Ditch the b*tch