Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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truth is, men will fvck a female immediately if she lets them - why wouldn't they?

And you really do want the females that would naturally hold back to hold back, and the ones who are easy lays to be easy. This is what separates he wheat from the chafe.
Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?
More girls for me!!!:p:p:p
 

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Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?
agreed, but it's a lesson I think they (will) eventually figure out.
 

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Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?

Girls who give up the puzzy on the first date, why do you believe they are considered slvts?

What is the thinking behind this
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls who give up the puzzy on the first date, why do you believe they are considered slvts?

What is the thinking behind this
Well the general consensus (which I agree with) seems to be that giving up sex that early suggests several things, many of them negative:

1. Suggests lack of self control
2. Suggests lack of self respect
3. Suggests lack of concern for personal reputation
4. Suggests past indiscriminate behavior
5. Suggests highly sexual nature
6. Suggests high interest level
7. Suggests low self esteem
8. Suggests poor moral character
9. Suggests disregard for health

These things are not ALWAYS true, and there are endless variables...men will have to be the judge with regard to individual women...but generally these are conclusions many people infer about girls who have sex very quickly, whether or not they are true.

So a wise woman exhibits self control, waits a bit for sexual activity and thusly mostly avoids these pre-judgements.

Edit: added "suggests" to items 1-3.
 
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Well the general consensus (which I agree with) seems to be that giving up sex that early suggests several things, many of them negative:

1. Lack of self control
2. Lack of self respect
3. Lack of concern for personal reputation
4. Suggests past indiscriminate behavior
5. Suggests highly sexual nature
6. Suggests high interest level
7. Suggests low self esteem
8. Suggests poor moral character
9. Suggests disregard for health

These things are not ALWAYS true, and there are endless variables...men will have to be the judge with regard to individual women...but generally these are conclusions many people infer about girls who have sex very quickly, whether or not they are true.

So a wise woman exhibits self control, waits a bit for sexual activity and thusly mostly avoids these pre-judgements.
Yes i kinda do agree with the above list... plus that dude may never call her again...

And if she is repeating that pattern, she may have had dozens of dudes pump and dump her, before she finally settles with some poor simp
 

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Besides, a girl who is easy, is no CHALLENGE!
 

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When women pull this kind of passive aggressive sh!t on me I only tell them one thing:

"Is there a problem?" with a straight face. 3 things will happen:

1. She tells you what's up and you talk like adults
2. She meekly says no and understands she was being an idiot, essentially submitting to you
3. She says no but continues to pull BS on you, at which point you kick her to the curb.
 

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When women pull this kind of passive aggressive sh!t on me I only tell them one thing:

"Is there a problem?" with a straight face. 3 things will happen:

1. She tells you what's up and you talk like adults
2. She meekly says no and understands she was being an idiot, essentially submitting to you
3. She says no but continues to pull BS on you, at which point you kick her to the curb.

I like this... forget mind games.. NC, i,m going to punish her with soft next etc..

Just tell her how it is.. if you does not understand and continues, just drop her
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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