"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How To Handle This Chit Test?

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truth is, men will fvck a female immediately if she lets them - why wouldn't they?

And you really do want the females that would naturally hold back to hold back, and the ones who are easy lays to be easy. This is what separates he wheat from the chafe.
Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?
More girls for me!!!:p:p:p
 

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Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?
agreed, but it's a lesson I think they (will) eventually figure out.
 

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Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?

Girls who give up the puzzy on the first date, why do you believe they are considered slvts?

What is the thinking behind this
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls who give up the puzzy on the first date, why do you believe they are considered slvts?

What is the thinking behind this
Well the general consensus (which I agree with) seems to be that giving up sex that early suggests several things, many of them negative:

1. Suggests lack of self control
2. Suggests lack of self respect
3. Suggests lack of concern for personal reputation
4. Suggests past indiscriminate behavior
5. Suggests highly sexual nature
6. Suggests high interest level
7. Suggests low self esteem
8. Suggests poor moral character
9. Suggests disregard for health

These things are not ALWAYS true, and there are endless variables...men will have to be the judge with regard to individual women...but generally these are conclusions many people infer about girls who have sex very quickly, whether or not they are true.

So a wise woman exhibits self control, waits a bit for sexual activity and thusly mostly avoids these pre-judgements.

Edit: added "suggests" to items 1-3.
 
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Well the general consensus (which I agree with) seems to be that giving up sex that early suggests several things, many of them negative:

1. Lack of self control
2. Lack of self respect
3. Lack of concern for personal reputation
4. Suggests past indiscriminate behavior
5. Suggests highly sexual nature
6. Suggests high interest level
7. Suggests low self esteem
8. Suggests poor moral character
9. Suggests disregard for health

These things are not ALWAYS true, and there are endless variables...men will have to be the judge with regard to individual women...but generally these are conclusions many people infer about girls who have sex very quickly, whether or not they are true.

So a wise woman exhibits self control, waits a bit for sexual activity and thusly mostly avoids these pre-judgements.
Yes i kinda do agree with the above list... plus that dude may never call her again...

And if she is repeating that pattern, she may have had dozens of dudes pump and dump her, before she finally settles with some poor simp
 

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Besides, a girl who is easy, is no CHALLENGE!
 

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When women pull this kind of passive aggressive sh!t on me I only tell them one thing:

"Is there a problem?" with a straight face. 3 things will happen:

1. She tells you what's up and you talk like adults
2. She meekly says no and understands she was being an idiot, essentially submitting to you
3. She says no but continues to pull BS on you, at which point you kick her to the curb.
 

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When women pull this kind of passive aggressive sh!t on me I only tell them one thing:

"Is there a problem?" with a straight face. 3 things will happen:

1. She tells you what's up and you talk like adults
2. She meekly says no and understands she was being an idiot, essentially submitting to you
3. She says no but continues to pull BS on you, at which point you kick her to the curb.

I like this... forget mind games.. NC, i,m going to punish her with soft next etc..

Just tell her how it is.. if you does not understand and continues, just drop her
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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