"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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truth is, men will fvck a female immediately if she lets them - why wouldn't they?

And you really do want the females that would naturally hold back to hold back, and the ones who are easy lays to be easy. This is what separates he wheat from the chafe.
Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?
More girls for me!!!:p:p:p
 

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Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?
agreed, but it's a lesson I think they (will) eventually figure out.
 

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Right, obviously. What happens however is often men run across women who won't have sex immediately and then drop those girls for failing to put out immediately in favor of girls who WILL have sex right away.

The girls who have sex right away are widely (not totally) considered unworthy of a relationship here. But many men here actively select for this type of girl.

The relationship material girls got discarded for NOT having sex right away. Then guys (who selected immediate sex type girls) wonder why they can't find a decent girlfriend in many cases.

Umm could it be the girlfriend type girls were sent packing in favor of the s l u t s?

Girls who give up the puzzy on the first date, why do you believe they are considered slvts?

What is the thinking behind this
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls who give up the puzzy on the first date, why do you believe they are considered slvts?

What is the thinking behind this
Well the general consensus (which I agree with) seems to be that giving up sex that early suggests several things, many of them negative:

1. Suggests lack of self control
2. Suggests lack of self respect
3. Suggests lack of concern for personal reputation
4. Suggests past indiscriminate behavior
5. Suggests highly sexual nature
6. Suggests high interest level
7. Suggests low self esteem
8. Suggests poor moral character
9. Suggests disregard for health

These things are not ALWAYS true, and there are endless variables...men will have to be the judge with regard to individual women...but generally these are conclusions many people infer about girls who have sex very quickly, whether or not they are true.

So a wise woman exhibits self control, waits a bit for sexual activity and thusly mostly avoids these pre-judgements.

Edit: added "suggests" to items 1-3.
 
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Well the general consensus (which I agree with) seems to be that giving up sex that early suggests several things, many of them negative:

1. Lack of self control
2. Lack of self respect
3. Lack of concern for personal reputation
4. Suggests past indiscriminate behavior
5. Suggests highly sexual nature
6. Suggests high interest level
7. Suggests low self esteem
8. Suggests poor moral character
9. Suggests disregard for health

These things are not ALWAYS true, and there are endless variables...men will have to be the judge with regard to individual women...but generally these are conclusions many people infer about girls who have sex very quickly, whether or not they are true.

So a wise woman exhibits self control, waits a bit for sexual activity and thusly mostly avoids these pre-judgements.
Yes i kinda do agree with the above list... plus that dude may never call her again...

And if she is repeating that pattern, she may have had dozens of dudes pump and dump her, before she finally settles with some poor simp
 

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Besides, a girl who is easy, is no CHALLENGE!
 

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When women pull this kind of passive aggressive sh!t on me I only tell them one thing:

"Is there a problem?" with a straight face. 3 things will happen:

1. She tells you what's up and you talk like adults
2. She meekly says no and understands she was being an idiot, essentially submitting to you
3. She says no but continues to pull BS on you, at which point you kick her to the curb.
 

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When women pull this kind of passive aggressive sh!t on me I only tell them one thing:

"Is there a problem?" with a straight face. 3 things will happen:

1. She tells you what's up and you talk like adults
2. She meekly says no and understands she was being an idiot, essentially submitting to you
3. She says no but continues to pull BS on you, at which point you kick her to the curb.

I like this... forget mind games.. NC, i,m going to punish her with soft next etc..

Just tell her how it is.. if you does not understand and continues, just drop her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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