I usually avoid attention *****s but if you find yourself gaming one of those girls how do you handle them? Clearly they love attention and usually find themselves in some b!tchy clique. What's the best way to deal with these skanks?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How to handle AW's?
- Thread starter Bizzle13
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Enjoy them, why not.
Spoon feed them attention (a tad at a time), and never give yourself away to them too easy. You have to remember - these type of girls have most likely had a million and one laughs at playing desperate men. Don't be nice to them, play around with them, keep poking them around emotionally (this is where your DJ skills come in 
). If you have to be nasty to her when it comes down to it, then do so. That way you'll be helping her future BF (or men) by pulling her head out of her ass.
I can't stand attention seekers.....
). If you have to be nasty to her when it comes down to it, then do so. That way you'll be helping her future BF (or men) by pulling her head out of her ass.I can't stand attention seekers.....
Appreciate the tips but how exactly? In regards to spoon feeding them attention. Was thinking if I talk to one of these girls I'd seem disinterested and make an excuse to leave, knowing I'd see her again later (night club setting), then when I see her later I'd give her the whole 'are you following me?' schpiel. Kind of make the attention seek have to seek my attention.
I'm going out tonight so no doubt I'll see a few of these types.
I'm going out tonight so no doubt I'll see a few of these types.
It's a mindset towards them that you're after. I'd be here forever trying to get it across. The main thing is that you simply DO NOT care about her. Let HER do all the work, judge her carefully, make planned moves (it's like a game of chess ).
Regardless though, you're not ready yet. You need to hang around the forum and do a lot of reading up. It'll all make sense eventually.... It NEEDS to come NATURALLY.
). Regardless though, you're not ready yet. You need to hang around the forum and do a lot of reading up. It'll all make sense eventually.... It NEEDS to come NATURALLY.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
If it is a game of chess, them you certainly care.
Nope, you're playing around with her emotionally and not giving yourself away to easy. It's about having fun. I consider "chess" fun, I don't care if I win or loose - as long as I've enjoyed the game, it's all good....
Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
Treat her like her skank. Just play her about with no intention of anything. Or even better, get a group of your buddies to play against her.Bizzle13 said:
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Then it is not a game at all. A game has its rules and and one of them is to win.adam225 said:
PlayHer Man
Banned
Since AW's are usually compulsive liars and you never really know exactly what their true motives are.. your best bet is to deal with them 100% on your terms.
Its the only way to know if they're into you vs. trolling for attention.
Make them follow your lead. Only deal with them when its convenient/fun for you. Don't let them make any rules until they f*ck you.
Its the only way to know if they're into you vs. trolling for attention.
Make them follow your lead. Only deal with them when its convenient/fun for you. Don't let them make any rules until they f*ck you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
They are a complete waste of time from my experience. Quickest branch swingers in the land. They don't care about the quality of attention or where it comes from only the quantity.
Thanks for all the advice, definitely taking a lot on board. Especially for tonight, had great success when saying to a girl getting attention from all the guys "it's nice to get attention from all the losers isn't it" before walking off with my arm round a hot friend. The aw didn't stop staring me over all night haha I find nightclub game a lot easier, it's all body language and eye contact but I was wondering how to game these girls in the street, or a hot friend of a friend.
Yeah I'd never end up with one of these girls in an ltr, too much hassle and drama. Good for a regular hookup max. If she wars attention she's gotta work hard to grab mine first
Yeah I'd never end up with one of these girls in an ltr, too much hassle and drama. Good for a regular hookup max. If she wars attention she's gotta work hard to grab mine first