I usually avoid attention *****s but if you find yourself gaming one of those girls how do you handle them? Clearly they love attention and usually find themselves in some b!tchy clique. What's the best way to deal with these skanks?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to handle AW's?
- Thread starter Bizzle13
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Enjoy them, why not.
Spoon feed them attention (a tad at a time), and never give yourself away to them too easy. You have to remember - these type of girls have most likely had a million and one laughs at playing desperate men. Don't be nice to them, play around with them, keep poking them around emotionally (this is where your DJ skills come in 
). If you have to be nasty to her when it comes down to it, then do so. That way you'll be helping her future BF (or men) by pulling her head out of her ass.
I can't stand attention seekers.....
). If you have to be nasty to her when it comes down to it, then do so. That way you'll be helping her future BF (or men) by pulling her head out of her ass.I can't stand attention seekers.....
Appreciate the tips but how exactly? In regards to spoon feeding them attention. Was thinking if I talk to one of these girls I'd seem disinterested and make an excuse to leave, knowing I'd see her again later (night club setting), then when I see her later I'd give her the whole 'are you following me?' schpiel. Kind of make the attention seek have to seek my attention.
I'm going out tonight so no doubt I'll see a few of these types.
I'm going out tonight so no doubt I'll see a few of these types.
It's a mindset towards them that you're after. I'd be here forever trying to get it across. The main thing is that you simply DO NOT care about her. Let HER do all the work, judge her carefully, make planned moves (it's like a game of chess ).
Regardless though, you're not ready yet. You need to hang around the forum and do a lot of reading up. It'll all make sense eventually.... It NEEDS to come NATURALLY.
). Regardless though, you're not ready yet. You need to hang around the forum and do a lot of reading up. It'll all make sense eventually.... It NEEDS to come NATURALLY.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
If it is a game of chess, them you certainly care.
Nope, you're playing around with her emotionally and not giving yourself away to easy. It's about having fun. I consider "chess" fun, I don't care if I win or loose - as long as I've enjoyed the game, it's all good....
Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
Treat her like her skank. Just play her about with no intention of anything. Or even better, get a group of your buddies to play against her.Bizzle13 said:
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Then it is not a game at all. A game has its rules and and one of them is to win.adam225 said:
PlayHer Man
Banned
Since AW's are usually compulsive liars and you never really know exactly what their true motives are.. your best bet is to deal with them 100% on your terms.
Its the only way to know if they're into you vs. trolling for attention.
Make them follow your lead. Only deal with them when its convenient/fun for you. Don't let them make any rules until they f*ck you.
Its the only way to know if they're into you vs. trolling for attention.
Make them follow your lead. Only deal with them when its convenient/fun for you. Don't let them make any rules until they f*ck you.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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Renegade357
Master Don Juan
They are a complete waste of time from my experience. Quickest branch swingers in the land. They don't care about the quality of attention or where it comes from only the quantity.
Thanks for all the advice, definitely taking a lot on board. Especially for tonight, had great success when saying to a girl getting attention from all the guys "it's nice to get attention from all the losers isn't it" before walking off with my arm round a hot friend. The aw didn't stop staring me over all night haha I find nightclub game a lot easier, it's all body language and eye contact but I was wondering how to game these girls in the street, or a hot friend of a friend.
Yeah I'd never end up with one of these girls in an ltr, too much hassle and drama. Good for a regular hookup max. If she wars attention she's gotta work hard to grab mine first
Yeah I'd never end up with one of these girls in an ltr, too much hassle and drama. Good for a regular hookup max. If she wars attention she's gotta work hard to grab mine first