don't react! you lose if you let the amog get a rise out of you. if an amog, or anyone for that matter, puts you down, don't acknowledge him. simply look at him for a second or two w/ a sly grin, turn your back and start talking to someone else. you'll save face while the amog ends up looking stupid.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
how to handle an amog
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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That's pretty good advice. Falling into the amog's frame is a big mistake.
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If you're confident about your wits you could also turn the situation around on him so it blows up in his face...
Risky though, you never know who you have in front of you and 'know you enemie' is not exactly bad advice. You might end up verbally pwned!
But of course, what you suggest is also pretty much making it blow up in his face in a very simple and safe way... though sometimes it's just a little extra fun to really drive the hammer home ;-)
Risky though, you never know who you have in front of you and 'know you enemie' is not exactly bad advice. You might end up verbally pwned!
But of course, what you suggest is also pretty much making it blow up in his face in a very simple and safe way... though sometimes it's just a little extra fun to really drive the hammer home ;-)
I'm 6'0" 245 lbs. I'm a Tongan, Tongans don't get disrespected all too much. lol. Fortunately, I don't get amogged... lol.
But I'm a gentle giant, mostly because I don't have to depend on verbal judo to gain ground. My knuckles somehow precede my offenses. Great info though... I'd be doing the same thing.
But I'm a gentle giant, mostly because I don't have to depend on verbal judo to gain ground. My knuckles somehow precede my offenses. Great info though... I'd be doing the same thing.
Bloke
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You from Australia ?Cruise said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Original poster, you remind me of this time I was at the bar with a couple friends and there was this hottie that was hunting to get picked up, so I started talking to her.
A guy comes up drunk, grabs her ass and starts talking to her. I just stare him down without saying a word and the guy's like "so sorry, man." Then he, without words asks to talk to her further... I signalled for him 'go for it and you'll see'... 20 seconds later she shot him down.
Then the bouncer shows up and starts hitting on this girl... She introduces and I let them talk, go talk to my buddies for a lil bit and go back to her... the girl ... moral of the story is she came home with me that night...
A guy comes up drunk, grabs her ass and starts talking to her. I just stare him down without saying a word and the guy's like "so sorry, man." Then he, without words asks to talk to her further... I signalled for him 'go for it and you'll see'... 20 seconds later she shot him down.
Then the bouncer shows up and starts hitting on this girl... She introduces and I let them talk, go talk to my buddies for a lil bit and go back to her... the girl ... moral of the story is she came home with me that night...