don't react! you lose if you let the amog get a rise out of you. if an amog, or anyone for that matter, puts you down, don't acknowledge him. simply look at him for a second or two w/ a sly grin, turn your back and start talking to someone else. you'll save face while the amog ends up looking stupid.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
how to handle an amog
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
That's pretty good advice. Falling into the amog's frame is a big mistake.
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If you're confident about your wits you could also turn the situation around on him so it blows up in his face...
Risky though, you never know who you have in front of you and 'know you enemie' is not exactly bad advice. You might end up verbally pwned!
But of course, what you suggest is also pretty much making it blow up in his face in a very simple and safe way... though sometimes it's just a little extra fun to really drive the hammer home ;-)
Risky though, you never know who you have in front of you and 'know you enemie' is not exactly bad advice. You might end up verbally pwned!
But of course, what you suggest is also pretty much making it blow up in his face in a very simple and safe way... though sometimes it's just a little extra fun to really drive the hammer home ;-)
I'm 6'0" 245 lbs. I'm a Tongan, Tongans don't get disrespected all too much. lol. Fortunately, I don't get amogged... lol.
But I'm a gentle giant, mostly because I don't have to depend on verbal judo to gain ground. My knuckles somehow precede my offenses. Great info though... I'd be doing the same thing.
But I'm a gentle giant, mostly because I don't have to depend on verbal judo to gain ground. My knuckles somehow precede my offenses. Great info though... I'd be doing the same thing.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
You from Australia ?Cruise said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Original poster, you remind me of this time I was at the bar with a couple friends and there was this hottie that was hunting to get picked up, so I started talking to her.
A guy comes up drunk, grabs her ass and starts talking to her. I just stare him down without saying a word and the guy's like "so sorry, man." Then he, without words asks to talk to her further... I signalled for him 'go for it and you'll see'... 20 seconds later she shot him down.
Then the bouncer shows up and starts hitting on this girl... She introduces and I let them talk, go talk to my buddies for a lil bit and go back to her... the girl ... moral of the story is she came home with me that night...
A guy comes up drunk, grabs her ass and starts talking to her. I just stare him down without saying a word and the guy's like "so sorry, man." Then he, without words asks to talk to her further... I signalled for him 'go for it and you'll see'... 20 seconds later she shot him down.
Then the bouncer shows up and starts hitting on this girl... She introduces and I let them talk, go talk to my buddies for a lil bit and go back to her... the girl ... moral of the story is she came home with me that night...