don't react! you lose if you let the amog get a rise out of you. if an amog, or anyone for that matter, puts you down, don't acknowledge him. simply look at him for a second or two w/ a sly grin, turn your back and start talking to someone else. you'll save face while the amog ends up looking stupid.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how to handle an amog
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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That's pretty good advice. Falling into the amog's frame is a big mistake.
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If you're confident about your wits you could also turn the situation around on him so it blows up in his face...
Risky though, you never know who you have in front of you and 'know you enemie' is not exactly bad advice. You might end up verbally pwned!
But of course, what you suggest is also pretty much making it blow up in his face in a very simple and safe way... though sometimes it's just a little extra fun to really drive the hammer home ;-)
Risky though, you never know who you have in front of you and 'know you enemie' is not exactly bad advice. You might end up verbally pwned!
But of course, what you suggest is also pretty much making it blow up in his face in a very simple and safe way... though sometimes it's just a little extra fun to really drive the hammer home ;-)
I'm 6'0" 245 lbs. I'm a Tongan, Tongans don't get disrespected all too much. lol. Fortunately, I don't get amogged... lol.
But I'm a gentle giant, mostly because I don't have to depend on verbal judo to gain ground. My knuckles somehow precede my offenses. Great info though... I'd be doing the same thing.
But I'm a gentle giant, mostly because I don't have to depend on verbal judo to gain ground. My knuckles somehow precede my offenses. Great info though... I'd be doing the same thing.
Bloke
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You from Australia ?Cruise said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Original poster, you remind me of this time I was at the bar with a couple friends and there was this hottie that was hunting to get picked up, so I started talking to her.
A guy comes up drunk, grabs her ass and starts talking to her. I just stare him down without saying a word and the guy's like "so sorry, man." Then he, without words asks to talk to her further... I signalled for him 'go for it and you'll see'... 20 seconds later she shot him down.
Then the bouncer shows up and starts hitting on this girl... She introduces and I let them talk, go talk to my buddies for a lil bit and go back to her... the girl ... moral of the story is she came home with me that night...
A guy comes up drunk, grabs her ass and starts talking to her. I just stare him down without saying a word and the guy's like "so sorry, man." Then he, without words asks to talk to her further... I signalled for him 'go for it and you'll see'... 20 seconds later she shot him down.
Then the bouncer shows up and starts hitting on this girl... She introduces and I let them talk, go talk to my buddies for a lil bit and go back to her... the girl ... moral of the story is she came home with me that night...